Welcome to The Wrecking Crew, RedHead69,
We have a few TWC servers for you to come and join. They are very dynamic with lots of options and interests for everyone. It's so easy to loose 3 to 4 hours on them.
Currently the TWC CAMPAIGN SERVER - England 1941 is the hot server with access to the aircraft that came with the Desert Wings – TOBRUK, the add-on to Cliffs of Dover BLITZ. You'll need to have the add-on to fly this server (which I see you have).
The TWC CAMPAIGN SERVER - 1940 is also available for those who do not own the Desert Wings – TOBRUK add-on. It is just as dynamic a server although it does not see as much traffic as the 1941 server does nor access to the 1941 aircraft-set.
Either way, there is a lot to learn, and at first may seem a bit overwhelming, but if you invest a little time, make a few friends, ask a few questions, in no time flat you'll find yourself loosing hours on the servers as well.
So as TWC Spook suggested, come an join us, get connected to our Discord comms, and say hi when you see us on the server. Most guys will be more than willing to help you get set up and answer your questions.
BTW, I'm on the West Coast of Canada, but I work shift work, so there are times I'm on the evenings and times that I'm on days. Anytime will be a good time to say hi.